fingerprint love...

2~ Best Love...what they meant/mean to you...


I dedicate this blog to my Kiwi.

Just like the unique fingerprints you see above on those hearts; love is unique. I refuse to measure love or compare one love with another. I think it would infuriate me if I knew that men that I loved once with all my heart are sitting around comparing it with other loves. Much like DNA, no two loves are the same (well, unless you are identical twins). The chances of your DNA matching another is one in one billion. Since your love comes from you and not governed by the same laws, in my opinion, there is no 'best' love...only love. 



Jill says, "my love is deeper, tighter, sweeter, higher, flyer..didn't you know this? or didn't you notice?" Who is the judge of this deeper, tighter, sweeter, higher, flyer love? She is, of course. She is comparing her love to another woman's love. She is comparing her relationship with another. Don't get me wrong. I totally understand where Jill is coming from. And Lord knows, I love this song. It is poetic and honest. She is self-assured, yet perplexed, and hurting all at the same time. And maybe her love is deep, tight, sweet, high and fly; and maybe the reason why he didn't know this or notice is because that love was not meant for him. Maybe her love was at a frequency he couldn't experience with her at that time in his life when they were together. Maybe he just wanted a woman (at that time in his life) to just be accommodating. Yeah, his new love gives him everything that he asks for and maybe he doesn't WANT more. Maybe your fingerprint love and his fingerprint love was no match. Then she goes on to confirm this line of thinking by saying, "what we had don't need no words; deeper than anything you ever heard." Maybe that depth was a little too deep for him to grasp because it's just not the love for him to have.


I hope I'm making sense. The love you bring is beautiful and once paired with the right match it will be everlasting love. All I'm trying to say is..we all want to believe that our love is the best or the love you had with that one person was the best love but there is no 'best'.. only unique fingerprint love.

Yo im tripping right? i heard you got married
you got married. it really dont make any si...it really dont make any since
i mean its not like i didnt think you weren't seeing other people or whatever
I mean i was seeing other people but you know what this is, you know what it was
i cant say i really understand though

[Verse 1]
You chose her cause shes sweet as pie
take what you give even your lies
but baby are you happy with out me?
she scrubs your back washes your clothes
gives you everything that you asks for
but dont you want more cause my love..

[Chorus]
My love is deeper, tighter, sweeter, higher, flyer
didn't you know this? or didn't you notice?
my love is deeper, tighter, sweeter, higher, flyer
didn't you know this? or didn't notice?

[Verse 2]
what we have dont need no words
deeper than anything you ever heard
im reaching baby i know i should be your lady
you say your happy, you say your great
but you know and I know you really aint
you need to come be with me
thats the way its suppose to be

Chorus 2x

[Bridge]
All i ever do is think about you baby
i hold you in my arms inside my dream
and i know what i know and what i know is
that no matter where you go, you will always think of me

Chorus 2x


Btw, while looking for a pic for this blog I stumbled upon these rings. They are personalized fingerprint wedding rings. What an awesome idea!!! Check out the Etsy site HERE. :)